I was tagged today by a friend in regards to someone else who has joined “the club” that you really wish you could say “Membership at capacity ” so that no one else had to through it .

I had been contemplating whether to keep posting or “let it go” but given the recent tag I will keep posting my thoughts and suggestions . It won’t work for everyone but if it helps just one grieving person deal with life that little better it’s worth it .

That being said – back at work today after 7 weeks off recovering from my mastectomy. Mixed feelings . I enjoyed my down time . Shelb and Isaack spent a fair bit of time here so I always feel their presence, I’m fortunate that most of my memories are of Isaack stirring Shelb light heartedly or them planing their futures .

I find focusing on the happy times that was their life not the accident which was just one day of their journey keeps me heading in the right direction. That and promoting donate life . Xx